So the other day I was hanging out with my friends, having fun, then I decided to invite them over to my house for a home-cooked meal. Although Sunny wasn't there, I didn't want her to feel left out so I asked her to join us.
But then last minute Sunny decided to invite someone I didn't know to come. WITHOUT ASKING ME FIRST. Apparently although it's my house and I'm the chef and also the fact that I don't know the stranger, I am STILL supposed to feed her because she is my friends' friend. What do you think of this?
Oh wait. Except one teeny little thing. It wasn't just someone I don't know, it was someone I DETEST. So I am forced to see someone I detest enjoy the meal I worked hard on. AWESOME!
Oh wait wait. Except it's not a meal. It's a trip I have been planning hard and reallyyy looking forward to over A MONTH. I get to PAY to see someone I detest enjoy an event I worked hard on for one WHOLE day. WICKED COOL!!!
And at this point it probably doesn't make any difference anymore but fyi Sunny was supposed to be someone I have trust a lot in and whom I have, in the past, poured out my heart to.
You, my dear, have managed to leave a scar forever in a memory that was supposed to be very precious to me within 5 minutes.*APPLAUSE*
This was an exclusive trip you retard. You see, it's very simple actually. If I wanted everyone to come I would have made it an event on facebook, right?
If it's an event someone else or you organized, I will not give a fuck on who is and who isn't invited. And do you know what is the most hurtful part? THAT YOU FULLY KNEW WHAT YOU DO WOULD RUINED MY DAY AND YOU STILL DID IT. YOU ROCK!!!
And so anyone wanna take a guess at what Sunny do after asking her friend to gatecrash?
A. Inform me immediately
B. Apologize
Teng, you dreamer, she did none of that.
I found out the hard way through someone else and when I confronted her this is what she said
"For u, she is not your friend but she is Our friend"
WOW. super enlightening. But you see dear I am already fully aware of that. Which is why you don't see me bad-mouthing her. I don't like her personality, that is my own problem. I keep my problems to myself and I just stay away from her. Simple, no?
And besides do you see any other people inviting her despite you saying that her being "our friend"?? NO. Why? Because they liked me more than the other? That would be very flattering but no. The main reason is because it was common sense to not gatecrash and certainly common sense to not invite someone the organiser disliked to gatecrash. Simple, no?
No one is forcing you to choose one or the other.
You are probably thinking "Oh poor me. If I invite her then blabla, if I don't then blabla. Why am I put into such a perplexing position? blablabla. " Aduhai please la. The options aren't just inviting or not inviting. If you feel guilty for not asking her along but still want to be so "wei dai" then the answer is so simple. You yourself just don't come and you won't be betraying anyone. NO ONE begging you to come pun.
hmm let's see what else did she say?
oh yes when I asked "why are you always betraying me", this is her answer:
"Ya, n u won't see when I didn't betray u"bad english so allow me to translate what she is attempting to say: yes I have betrayed you but you should also consider all the times I could have but did not betray you.
GOSH I'm so sorry that I am so petty and narrow-hearted. I hope when your future husband cheats on you, you will remember to "see all the times he could have cheated on you but didn't do so" and find it in you to forgive him. FUCK you.
Oh, oh wanna take a guess at what I was thinking while you were busy betraying me? I was thinking that poor Sunny one girl alone in the other car with two guys nia. Maybe I should go over to teman her or ask some other girl to go over.
And you know what? This isn't even the first time she has gone out of her way to make my life miserable.
The first one was when Sunny and I were super close and we told each other everything. On the other hand, Kathy and I weren't that close and had a few fall-outs. One day, we had a problem and Kathy went to Sunny for help. My 'best friend' Sunny then tells Kathy that she shouldn't be so nice to me because I don't deserve it and then told Kathy all the bad things I have said about her when we bickered. It was such a small matter at first but Sunny blew the whole matter out of proportion knowing FULLY well that it could sabotage my friendship with Kathy and might even made me hated and isolated by my batch.
Using what I CONFIDED in you to turn others against me. Classic.
Please note that we told each other everything big and small, family stories and all small frustrations and happiness. She bad-mouthed a lot of people who some are now her friends. But you don't see me going around telling them that "You know what.. this is what Sunny actually thinks of you blablabla. So you see, she doesn't deserve your friendship". No. Why would ANY friends do that? Why would ANY friends try to make their friend hated? But wow Sunny. You really are such a 'special' friend. With 'friends' like you, who needs enemies?
And sadly that wasn't the only time. In one particular incident, it was even when I got pour my heart out to her. She was like all nice and comforting to me but behind my back when the party came to her about how to mend things with me, she actually tried to turn them against me instead!
And actually I knew whenever two parties of any bicker consult her, she would just 'pei he' and tell each party things they would like to hear. But I didn't know she could sink to turning them against each other. And of course I thought we were best friends and naturally thought she would never do the same thing to me. It hurted so much when I found out. God I am so stupid.
Do you know what you are? a TWO-FACED BITCH
To my knowledge, I count to at least FOUR times betrayal. God knows how many times else she has back-stabbed me over the years.
p.s. And if you feel miserable after reading my post then serves you right. Blocking me from your blog and still have the nerve to read MINE??
p.p.s Since we used to always give each other advice whenever we had problems, here's my last advice for you to relieve your frustration after reading this post: tell your bf, let him bad-mouth me to the guys and get everyone to hate me and to pity and side you. Good luck.
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